This is the sermon I gave on Sunday, October 7, 2012. Following the sermon are the two readings I used in the service.
RIPPED
FROM THE HEADLINES – JESUS HAD A WIFE?
So,
was there a Mrs. Jesus?
As
you probably already know, Jesus has been in the news of late. A few
words regarding his marital status and about having a female diciple,
has the world of Christian theology, history and archeology in an
uproar. People like me, who thoroughly enjoy this kind of upending of
Christianity's doctrine and dogma, have been experiencing a strange
kind of pleasure regarding this “new” finding. It is very
exciting and adds to our knowledge base about the origins of the
early Jesus movement. I have to admit that the first time I read
about it, I did feel a twinge of vindication. After all, what had I
been saying – that Jesus was married to Mary Magdalene and they
probably had a family and here was the rest of the world catching up
to what I had figured out long ago. Well, not so fast.
Karen
King, professor at Harvard University's Divinity School, historian of
early Christianity, and author (translated our Gospel of Mary
reading) was given a small piece of parchment, probably cut from a
much longer work, by an antiquities collector almost a year ago. The
origin of this piece and what it was taken from, is unknown. In the
world of archeology and scholarship, this is identified as
“unprovenanced”. That is a big deal, and one that can be
difficult for one's colleagues to take this seriously in the academic
world. It is written in Coptic, an Egyptian language that uses Greek
letters. Dr. King is an expert in the Copic language – it's one of
the courses she teaches at Harvard Divinity. This small piece of
papyrus had some words written on it that were downright
earth-shaking: Jesus, while apparently talking to his disiples, says
, “My wife” and “Mary is worthy of it”, and, perhaps most
amazing, “she will be able to be my disiple”. Does this prove
that Jesus was married and that Mary Magdelene was his wife and
disciple? No, not at all.
If
it proves anything at all, it is this: during the early centuries,
there were many different ideas about who Jesus was, what his life
was like and what were the important ideas that he taught.
Dr.
King translated the fragment. Experts in ancient papyri, Dr. Roger
Bagnall of New York University and Dr. AnneMarie Luijendijk of
Princeton University examined it and concluded that it was authentic,
both for the writing and the papyrus. The judgment of all was that it
was written in the 2nd Century, C.E. A paper, written by
Karen King was presented in late September, at the International
Conference of Coptic Studies, held in Rome, Italy. Some of her
colleagues immediately denounced the findings and called it a
forgery.
Just
as many indicated their interest in this and were eager to learn
more. Others, who didn't call it fake, used different language to
describe what Jesus purportedly said. For instance, when he talked
about, “My wife”, he was referring to the Church as his bride and
he was the bridegroom. I know that those words have been used in the
that way, but this was written supposedly before there really was
a church as we use the term today. About a week after the headlines
in the newspapers,on TV and the interenet, the Roman Catholic Church
weighted in calling it all, “fake”. Though I won't comment
further on their reaction, I believe it was a lamentable choice of
words.
Let's
take a look at what we and Biblical scholars know about Jesus –
Yeshua's life. We know that he was probably born to a young mother,
Mary or Miryam. In those days, in the Jewish community, when a woman
became betrothed to a man, it was not unusual for her to become
pregnant and even deliver her first-born before she actually got
married. During the betrothal, it was considered prudent to make sure
that the woman could adequately bear children. So, I believe then,
Jesus was concieved in the old fashioned way, with Joseph or Yehoseph
as his biological father. In the Gospels of Mark and Matthew,
Jesus has four brothers and at least two sisters. They are: James –
Yaakov; Joseph – Yose (a nickname actually); Jude – Yehuda; Simon
– Shimon; Mary – Miryam; Solome – Shulamit. All of these are
extremely common names in Israel in the first century. I know that
the Catholic church calls his siblings, “cousins”, but the Greek
words, which the earliest versions of the Gospels were translated
from, use the word that means biological
brothers or sisters.
We
don't know what happened from the time Jesus was 12 until he started
his teaching, but there are some buried hints. There are a number of
scholars, who posit that Jesus was an Essene during part of this
time. The Essenes were a break-away Jewish sect (2nd
century B.C.E.) who had gone out into the desert along the Dead Sea
to live and worship the way they felt was proper. They had left the
Temple in Jerusalem for a number of reasons, among them being that
they felt that the priests of the temple had too close a relationship
with the occupiers and that the Shekinah, the consort of Yahweh or
the Feminine Devine, had been thrown out of the temple. The sect
apparently had a few divisions within that followed slightly
different ways of life. One followed a completely ascetic way of life
and for the most part lived totally apart from the rest of society.
Another group had a revolving group of members who lived together for
a few years ascetically, then left to re-enter society, marry and
have families. The last group apparently were families living
together abstaining from most of what society had to offer, but not
all, and may have been the ones who occupied Qumran and perhaps were
the folks who hid the Dead Sea Scrolls.
Now
we come to the very beginning of Jesus life teaching and healing.
There are, again, a few hidden clues about what might have been
happening. In our second reading by Margaret Starbird, she talks of
Jesus being married. The story of the wedding at Cana may very well
describe Jesus' own wedding. The wedding is being held in Cana, a
village in Gallilee, not far from Nazereth. His mother comes to Jesus
to tell him that the wine is running low and that they need more.
First of all, this is a clue. Why would his mother come to him to
tell him that the wine is running out? Is she the hostess? Why would
this be a concern of hers? There has been speculation that if this
was Jesus' wedding, she would have been the hostess (based on 1st
century Jewish tradition) and so would have been keenly watching how
supplies of food and drink would have been holding out. Also, this
wasn't a short little reception after a wedding ceremony, this could
have been going on for many hours or even a couple of days. If her
husband Joseph was deceased at this point, then very likely she would
have been the only one in charge of refreshment at this lively feast.
One
other thing: if Jesus was considered a teacher or rabbi in the first
century, he would have had
to be married. The first of the mitsvah or commandments is to be
fruitful and multiply (Genesis 1:28). This was not taken lightly. If
someone was a rabbi, then they were married.
We
have come finally to Jesus' crucifixion and death. The Gospels of
Luke and John place several women at the site of the crucifixion,
among them his mother and Mary Magdalene. Jesus body was laid in a
tomb as soon as he taken down from the cross. The Jewish people were
preparing for Passover and they needed to get this done before
nightfall. In Jewish tradition, once the sun went down, it was a new
day. That new day would then have been Passover. Handling a dead body
made one ritually unclean, and they needed to be ritually clean to
celebrate the Passover, so his body was not tended to as normally one
would have done. The process for taking care of a dead body in first
century Judaism would have been to wash the body, anoint it with
fragrant oils and spices and then wrap it in clean linen. The body
laid in a stone tomb, usually a family tomb, for a year. After a year
had gone by and the flesh had fallen off and distingtigrated, the
bones were gathered up and put into a stone bone box or ossuary and
re-intered in the family burial tomb. In each of the Gospels a group
of women or sometimes just Mary Magdalene is mentioned as coming to
take care of Jesus' body after he was put in the tomb. The one very
interesting fact, is that her name is always
mentioned first.
The washing and annointing of a dead body in first century Judaism
was always done by women. And they were always women who were closely
related to the deceased. In this case, it would have been his wife,
his mother and a sister: "And
when the Sabbath was past, Mary Magdalene, and Mary the mother of
James, and Salome, had bought sweet spices, that they might come and
anoint him. And very early in the morning the first day of the week,
they came to the sepulcher at the rising of the sun"
(Mk.16:1-2 KJV).
His mother would have been identified as the mother of James, because
he was now the eldest son and head of the family.
With this chronology,
we see where a wife of Jesus' could have been in his life's story. In
the Gospel of Mary, we see where his followers believed that Mary
Magdalene was a leader in the early days of the Jesus movement. So
where does this put us in looking at whether Jesus had a wife or not?
That is for you to decide. We are a free church, with no bishop,
hierarchy or doctrine to tell us what to believe. I suspect that many
of you are here because you are more comfortable with that. Our
Congregational Covenent compells us to respect each other's ideas and
beliefs about Jesus, God, and our place in this world. I have
experienced criticism about my beliefs: that they are too extreme,
that I don't belong in this church, that I don't know what I'm
talking about; but repect for one another's beliefs is a two way
street. If you want me to respect your beliefs, then you will have to
respect mine. The reaction to the, “news” that Jesus had a wife,
leads me to believe that there is a hunger out there to know that
Jesus might have lived a “normal” life, which makes him more real
and reachable.
Are
there some of you are now in full panic mode and complaining
(whining?) about everyone changing Jesus on you? Look, here's the
deal: life is change. New things will always be found regarding one
of the most important people in history. But here is what hasn't
changed: Jesus' message about love – his most powerful and perhaps
most important one coming the night before he died “Love one
another as I have loved you.” And caring for others, for “the
least of these”, for the hungry, sick, homeless, the widows and
orphans. His teaching is still
the same.
Nothing has changed about that. So, what are you waiting for? There
are people to be fed – go fix dinner for the men at Leland House or
on Saturday morning help with Food
For All
downstairs, find an animal shelter or rescue organization that needs
some help (yes, those animals especially could be considered the
“least of these”) and they always do, help a student in a school
near where you live or work to learn to read or do math. And in doing
things for others, in helping others we can find what I believe will
be our own salvation.
Readings
for Oct. 7
Gospel
of Mary translated
by Karen King
But
they were distressed and wept greatly. "How are we going to go
out to the rest of the world to announce the good news about the
Realm of the child of true Humanity?" they said. "If they
did not spare him, how will they spare us?"
Then
Mary stood up. She greeted them all, addressing her brothers and
sisters, "Do not weep and be distressed nor let your hearts be
irresolute. For his grace will be with you all and will shelter you.
Rather we should praise his greatness, for he has prepared us and
made us true Human beings."
When
Mary had said these things, she turned their heart [to]ward the Good,
and they began to deba[t]e about the wor[d]s of [the Savior].
Peter
said to Mary, "Sister, we know that the Savior loved you more
than all other women. Tell us the words of the Savior that you
remember, the things which you know that we don't because we haven't
heard them."
Mary
responded, "I will teach you about what is hidden from you."
Excerpt
from “The Woman With the Alabaster Jar” by Magaret Starbird
The
Fourth Gospel says very clearly that the woman who anointed Jesus at
Bethany was Mary, the sister of Lazarus. Mary Magdalen's name is not
mentioned in connection with the anointing scene, but it is she who
accompanies Jesus to Calvary in the Gospels, standing near the cross;
and it is she who goes at dawn on Easter
morning
to finish the anointing for burial that she began several days
before.
A
dynastic marriage between Jesus and a royal daughter of the
Benjamites would have been perceived as a source of healing to the
people of Israel during their time of misery as an occupied nation.
In
the novel King Jesus (published in 1946), Robert Graves, the
twentieth-century mythographer, suggests that Jesus' lineage and
marriage were concealed from all but a select circle of royalist
leaders. To protect the royal bloodline, this marriage would have
been kept secret from the Romans and the Herodian tetrarchs, and
after the crucifixion of Jesus, the protection of his wife and family
would
have been a sacred trust for those few who knew their identity. All
reference to the marriage of Jesus would have been deliberately
obscured, edited, or eradicated.
It
is probable that the original references to Mary Magdalen in the oral
tradition, the "pericopes" of the New Testament, were
misunderstood before they were ever committed to writing. I suspect
that the epithet "Magdaleri" was meant to be an allusion to
the "Magdaleder" found in Micah, the promise of the
restoration of Sion following her exile. Perhaps the earliest verbal
references attaching the epithet "Magdala" to Mary of
Bethany's name had nothing to do with an obscure town in Galilee, as
is suggested, but were deliberate references to these lines in Micah,
to the "watchtower" or "stronghold" of the
Daughter of Sion who was forced into political exile.
It
seems obvious that after the crucifixion of Jesus, Mary Magdalen was
no longer in Jerusalem. there is no mention of Mary, Martha, or
Lazarus in the Book of Acts or in Paul's letters.
It
is clear from the four canonical Gospels that Mary Magdalen enjoyed
special precedence in the community of believers, since she was the
first person to see and speak to Jesus on Easter Sunday, having
hurried to his tomb at first light to perform embalming rites for his
dead body. There are seven lists in the four Gospels that name the
women who accompanied Jesus. In six of the seven, the name of Mary
Magdalen is given first--ahead of Mary, the mother of Jesus, and
ahead of the other women mentioned. The Gospel writers, beginning
with Mark, are most likely reflecting the status of the Magdalen in
the Christian community--that of First Lady.